OMG what slow and steady?? I thought ur policy was fast and wise? And only smart people make fast and wise decisions. Which apparently includes u. If u can advice people by telling them that by dragging it(whatever "it" may be) on would not do either party any good, then stop dragging urs! Since u make such fast and wise decisions, there's no need to consider or to think it through, just take action. Do not give other people advice that u urself wont heed. JUST LISTEN TO YOURSELF.

where's my bitching partner when i need him/her??? WHERE?? HAHA