Monday, June 16, 2008
I reflect, and yes, I was wrong. But I had my reasons for doing what I did. There's no need to defend myself anymore than this, simply because it'll cause more misunderstandings.
At least I know that communication is the key to mutual understanding. I communicate with the people around me so as to prevent or clear up misunderstandings that happen along the way. I feel that technology has destroyed the proper communication between individuals. Misunderstandings arise more easily because of it. I know that having a dialogue is a form of communication. I do not push it away when I know it's necessary.
I really do wonder, if it is a disorder, for someone to contradict him/herself more often than not. If it is, I really do sympathise such people. Maybe they feel a sense of insecurity that they have to gain sympathy as well, by making them seem like they've been so victimised. And that they're the only victims in the situation. This sense of insecurity is then covered up by the individual by appearing to be very strong, where nothing will bring him/her down.
Anything that individual does is correct, because he/she strongly believes that he/she is right. Are they able to accept the opinions and views of others although they can't agree with the opposing views?? Wait, what's this called? I think it's called mutual understanding. It must be really hard to achieve that if they are incapable of looking at different angles.
Does that interfere with the judgement that these people will pass on others?? It may blur their vision and the ability to look at it in an objective way.
Oh well, I suppose individuals can't help it. Unless of course, they get rid of the root of the problem(which could be the insecurity they have in them). There's so much to say, but I think it's enough for now.
One last thing, I never like pointing because I just hate how four fingers point back at me.
STRONG. RIGHTEOUS. FREE.